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Jan 26th 11 Posted by Don Freedman in Blogging

Why Women Are Attracted To Feminine Men

Since we were small children we were taught to act manly and dominant.

We were discouraged to act feminine. It’s part of being socialized.

This was dinned into us by our mother and father; by books we read and TV shows we watched; and by our teachers in school.

Perhaps an example would shed light on this.

I want you to do something educational: schlep over to a toy store.

At every toy store they have a section for boys and one for girls. Boys aren’t supposed to go into the girl’s section unless they are buying a present for their little sister.

In the boys section you’ll find G.I. Joes, Transformers, and Thomas the Train.

For the girl’s, you’ll find toys such as Brats.

Moreover, these toys are more than playthings. They are heuristic tools for teaching children how to be a man or a woman.

If a boy is caught brushing a Brat doll’s hair, his friends will most likely make fun of him and call him a girl.

If his mother or father catch him doing this, they’ll immediately take the doll away from him and worry that he isn’t being socialized as a male.

This causes boys and men alike to stay clear of acting like a girl.

There’s nothing wrong with this except that some of the best seducers have developed their feminine side. These men are called “Dandies.”

They oscillate between the role of a man and a woman.

In fact, their seductive power lies in that they cannot be categorized as masculine or feminine.

When a person cannot be categorized, they entrance others. We are attracted to those who entrance us.

Sigmund Freud said that the libido is inherently bisexual. In other words, we are equally attracted to our same sex.

But social constraints prevent us from acting on these desires.

Women are attracted to the Dandy because he is a woman inside a man’s body.

Dandies are notoriously insolent: they have very little need to please people – especially women. This is another facet of their allure.

Here’s a simple guide to turning yourself into a Dandy: learn to pay attention to the smallest details, develop a disdain for pleasing others, and nurture your feminine side.

I want to leave you with a quote from Pablo Picasso: “I am a woman. Every artist is a woman and should have a taste for other women. Artists who are homosexual cannot be true artists because they like men, and since they themselves are women they are reverting to normality.”

This will work whether you make your money from marketing, advertising, the finance world, selling autos, or something else.

Whether you’re into blogs, gardening, sports, spirituality, religion, traveling the world, being a family man, or health and fitness, this advice will help you.

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